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Parenting Through Your Child's Second 12 Years

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For Teens Only: Are We Stuck in a Control Battle?

In this previously unpublished chapter for his book, Neil gives youth an honest look at their relationship with their parents and offers them a healthy path forward towards their independence.

Parental Burnout Recovery Guide

Parental burnout is a state of physical, mental and emotional exhaustion. It leaves parents feeling chronically fatigued, often experiencing sleep and concentration problems — and it can lead to depression, chronic anxiety, and illness. Learn what you can do to change this.

Control Battle Worksheet

Parent-Teen Control Battle Assessment

Want a quick way to evaluate where you stand in the Control Battle?

Download and fill out this assessment to get a better sense of your relationship.